Diving into the sugar bowl is exciting, for sure, but it’s also a significant change for most people. That said, it’s only natural for new sugar babies to be a little unsure of themselves at first. They especially wonder how they measure up against their competition. And yes, many brand new sugar babies wonder whether they’re pretty enough to make it in the sugar bowl at all.
It’s the elephant in the room so many new sugar daters don’t really like to discuss out loud, but it’s not hard to see why beauty is such a huge concern when you’re brand new. Stunning, knock-you-flat good looks seem to be the one thing most successful sugar babies have in common, but how important are looks when it comes to scoring a terrific sugar daddy? The truth might surprise you.
Do you have to be a knockout to sugar?
Life in the sugar bowl is all about honesty, so here’s some honesty for you right off the bat. Looks do matter. People don’t like to admit it or talk about it, but looks matter in traditional dating, and they matter in the sugar bowl. But the good news is you don’t have to be a perfect ten or a dead ringer for a supermodel to be sugar baby material.
Great sugar daddies are looking for exceptional women to spend their lives with, but that shouldn’t be taken to mean you need to be physically flawless to qualify. Yes, you need to take care of yourself and care about how you look. You also need to be reasonably attractive, but most sugar babies don’t have anything to worry about in that department, and it’s unlikely you’re any different.
But if you’re still not sure whether you’re pretty enough to turn a sugar daddy’s head, ask yourself the following questions. How did men treat you in the world of traditional dating? Did they look at you and follow you with their eyes when you walked away? Did they ask you out, invite you home with them, or otherwise show you they enjoy your company and would like to have more of it? Has a man ever told you you’re pretty?
If so, then yes. You’re pretty enough to make it in the sugar bowl, guaranteed. The secret to unparalleled success as a sugar baby isn’t actually your appearance. It’s your personality and uniqueness.
How do you use your personality to your advantage?
Have you ever met someone who maybe didn’t seem that attractive initially but somehow became irresistible as you got to know them better? Take a moment to think about how that person made that transition in your mind. Maybe they made you feel unconditionally heard or saw you on a level no one else seemed to. Or they may have had a wonderful sense of humor or an intellect sharp enough to cut glass.
That’s the power of personality in action, and the best sugar babies know how to put theirs to work for them. Although it may not feel that way sometimes, absolute knockout beauties are a dime a dozen. On the other hand, a sparkling personality is pretty hard to come by, as most sugar daters can attest to. So here are some suggestions for helping your natural effervescent personality shine through in a way no sugar daddy can resist.
- Listen attentively to every word he says. Validate his feelings and look for little ways to make him feel heard.
- If you’re a flirtatious type, turn the charm up. World-class flirts know how to make any guy feel like the only person in the room.
- Be the very best version of yourself because there’s only one you. So whether you’re intelligent, funny, creative, or quirky, play your unique qualities up to your advantage.
Keep in mind that you’re someone’s sweet dream come true.
Everyone’s had their mother or grandmother tell them that there’s a lid for every pot when it comes to dating. And as trite as such clichés can be, that one just so happens to be true. Almost no one looks in the mirror and truly feels they see a perfect package looking back at them, including all those knockout sugar babies that have you questioning whether you’re sugar material at all.
But keep in mind that every sugar daddy has a specific “type” of woman he likes, and no two daddies are after the same thing. Sometimes an individual sugar daddy is drawn to a certain mix of features or even just the look in a woman’s eyes. Success in the sugar bowl is all about making the most of what makes you unique.
In other words, there’s truly a sugar daddy out there for every sugar baby, so don’t let any insecurities you may have keep you from finding the happiness and financial security you deserve. Somewhere out there, there’s a daddy (or several) who’s out there looking for exactly what you have to offer.